The numbness thing reminds me of when Dylan was about 6 and he lent his game boy to a little mexican girl and she erased the pokemon game that had taken him about 4 weeks to get to. While he was crying in my arms, Lane suggested that it was a good opportunity to teach him a lesson about trust.
Comfort first. Analysis, lessons and recriminations can come later.
15 minutes, that’s all I’m saying.